tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7515375289016679235.post8165200080186737096..comments2021-03-06T15:37:51.296-07:00Comments on Finding Cynthia: "I am too a girl"!!!Cynthia Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16222413324022459669noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7515375289016679235.post-17814038215251427502011-09-19T10:34:39.660-06:002011-09-19T10:34:39.660-06:00@Kelly, I finally realized after writing and readi...@Kelly, I finally realized after writing and reading and rereading my last post that the girls I thought were so cruel, really were only being honest. Their honesty just seemed to come out in a cruel way. That is why I had to forgive them. Also the Lord expects us to forgive.<br /><br />And yes, much of that pain from then has lifted now. Hugs!Cynthia Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16222413324022459669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7515375289016679235.post-14299456732159793012011-09-19T10:26:34.076-06:002011-09-19T10:26:34.076-06:00@Debra, Thank you for the hug, and yes, you are ri...@Debra, Thank you for the hug, and yes, you are right, all kinds of little things keep popping up in my memory. I wish I did have more time left than what I do, but I am thankful for what I do have. Hugs!Cynthia Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16222413324022459669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7515375289016679235.post-25588866951454351222011-09-19T10:21:29.985-06:002011-09-19T10:21:29.985-06:00@Suzi, As always, I thank you very much for the wi...@Suzi, As always, I thank you very much for the wisdom you impart. I don't know quite how things are going to play out, but some things have changed recently. I'll tell you about it after I hear back from you. Hugs!Cynthia Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16222413324022459669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7515375289016679235.post-20346865901735105872011-09-16T17:18:15.265-06:002011-09-16T17:18:15.265-06:00Hi Cynthia,
Wow. I'm so sorry. Thank you for ...Hi Cynthia,<br /><br />Wow. I'm so sorry. Thank you for your honesty in sharing such a painful memory. The cruelty of children can be staggering, can't it? As you noted, we learn to be resilient, which, in a funny way, is a blessing. I know I'm finding out I'm a lot stronger than I ever realized. Hope you find the same.<br /><br />It's amazing how cathartic it can be to write about these things, isn't it? They seem to lose a lot of power once we finally drag them, kicking and screaming, from our thoughts to the light of day. I can only speak for myself, but after I write about a painful memory, it loses much of its power. Sunshine really is the best disinfectant, I guess.<br /><br />No need to apologize for the length or order of your posts, by the way. Anyone reading my blog is no doubt suffering whiplash from the constant jumps in time and subject from post to post! And we won't even get into the epic length of mine, either! Write about what you want, when you want, and as much or as little as you want. It's your space!<br /><br />Have a great weekend, Cynthia! I recommend spending it listening to Elvis. Lots and lots of Elvis. :c)<br /><br />Hugs,<br />KellyCassidyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10765803435751308973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7515375289016679235.post-35118905225283082502011-09-16T17:11:20.152-06:002011-09-16T17:11:20.152-06:00*hugs* girl. It doesn't surprise me to read ab...*hugs* girl. It doesn't surprise me to read about this kind of thing at a young age. We all have them. It's good to explore them and remember and realize what it all means now. But it definitely takes time to through them all. I still have little things that come up randomly that I completely forgot about. ;)Debrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06752910753527115712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7515375289016679235.post-27308083163611191622011-09-16T17:07:37.417-06:002011-09-16T17:07:37.417-06:00Wow Cynthia! That was a wonderful blog post...ver...Wow Cynthia! That was a wonderful blog post...very open, sincere, and heartfelt.<br /><br />I suspect that nearly all of us reading this can empathize with your feelings, needs, and desire. I guess the hardest part is deciding what to do next. To transition or not. The factors involved are many...the decisions hard...the results, individual.<br /><br />I've been waiting to reply to your most recent email to me because I knew this blog post was coming. I see you are filled with passion and a desire to get to the root of the problem. The solutions will have far reaching implications on you, your family, and everyone you know.<br /><br />This much I know: My friend Lindsay is transitioning and I'm intimately involved in keeping her sane...lol. I see the many problems she is encountering...divorce, etc., but I also see the new calmer Lindsay...the happier Lindsay. She has met with much acceptance from almost everyone but her wife. I wish you the best of luck in whatever path you choose. I've made my choice...at least for now :) Take care girl. Hang in there. Be happy. :)SuziAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com